Irritating Moments that Leave a Mental Rash

handling your irritationWhat irritates you to the point that you feel you may just commit an act that could have you facing a judge, pleading not guilty by reason of insanity? At any point throughout the day, there are any number of events that could set me off. Sometimes it is as simple as my husband forgetting to replace the toilet paper. Other times it is lights.

Good gracious, I cannot stand light in the mornings when I first wake up. Natural sunlight is welcomed, but artificial light peeking underneath doors and glaring in my face as I stumble to the kitchen for breakfast is absolutely uncalled for. My light aversion could be the cause of my inexpertly applied make-up, but let’s not go there.

I didn’t start off writing about what irritates me. No, I actually began with the intention to write this article about Pinterest. My heart was happy, my head filled with creative thoughts. I wanted to share with you a pin I recently tried and detail the lovely experience that I had while experimenting with that pin. Eventually, I will get around to writing that and you will be able to view it here.

What happened, you ask? What happened was that while sitting at a table at a local eatery two things happened that have managed to throw me off my game and make me incredibly irritated.Which in turn leaves you, my faithful reader, at the other end of one of my hissy fits. One, the free WiFi is being cantankerous, leaving me disabled and discombobulated. Unable to move any faster than a snail’s pace, I quickly gave up the notion that I would be able to get anything done online. Even as I type this, I am using my computer’s word processor…UNCONNECTED! Incredible. Unheard of. How do we live without the internet and technology.? What would happen if my computer deserted me all together this evening? I would be forced to write to you in Neanderthal ways using a notebook and pen. I don’t even want to entertain that thought for a second longer.

Losing access to technology was brutal, but then came the icing on the cake. The one thing that could irritate me more than my husband watching the same episode of Dr. Who ,over and over again, happened. Actually, as I write this it is still happening. One of the restaurant staff began to vacuum the floor. That’s fine. I want this restaurant to be clean. Clean anywhere you want, but why do you insist on vacuuming underneath my table, around my feet, next to my purse? Why is it absolutely necessary that you invade my space? It absolutely cannot wait until I leave?

Yep, I admit. I sound pretentious, spoiled and uptight. Usually, I would have made an effort to take a restroom break or a drink break. I probably would have even picked up my purse and feet. Maybe I was still bitter about the WiFi. Who knows? Sometimes I can’t  reason my actions.

Tonight I will post this and tomorrow I will be embarrassed that I shared these trivial insecurities with you, but for now I don’t care. Perhaps you will find the humor and have a little chuckle at my expense. This is my gift to you.

What irritates you to the point of bad behavior? How do you handle situations that threaten to unleash your inner demon?


About Denise McGrail

I am thrilled and blessed to have the opportunity to be a part of The General Gazette. Like so many women, I put off my dreams of being a professional, published writer for longer than intended in order to meet the more practical needs of my family. However, after much soul-searching, I realized I was doing a disservice to them and me by not following my dreams and my passions.

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Comments

  1. mary gardner says:

    badly behaving children drives me nuts

  2. Trisha McKee says:

    You hit upon one of my pet peeves- invasion of personal space. I totally understand that some people are close talkers and huggers- but if you don’t know me, please keep your hands to yourself. I am getting older and bolder so I let people know if they are too close or touchy-feely. I just feel I shouldnt have to.

  3. Ellen Levickis says:

    In my advanced age I thought that there is little that irritates me anymore until I read some of the others’ responses and came up with a one of my own.
    It infuriates me if someone is irritated because another slurps or chews loudly, unless they KNOW the other person is doing it to annoy others, I hate it when someone gets mad because another was unable to hear or understand them.or pay attention to their ramblings I am irritated with people’s intolerance and snap decisions, those persons need to take it easy, someone else with an eating or hearing issue is unlikely to be able to control the reason.

    But I do have one of my own. It irritates me when my husband DOESN’T ‘t leave the fan on in the bathroom and I walk in there and get hit in the face with either humidity or aroma.. I just deal with it and don’t try to take revenge by nagging about it, I don’t dwell on it. It is an inconsequential irritant,

  4. Massively irritating? Perhaps more of a deeper level than hating being asked by 10 different salespeople at Nebraska Furniture Mart if I need assistance is being assumed incompetent because I am a single mom. Not sure if the assumption exists more b/c I’m a woman or b/c I managed to accidentally enter the world of parenthood on my lonesome. Either or, I don’t care. And I welcome help if that’s being offered. But you can keep your thoughts that I’m incapable thankyouverymuch. :P

  5. Michelle S says:

    people who don’t pay attention to others around them like in a supermarket.

  6. shirley zolenski says:

    I hate it when other people think that their time is more important than mine.

  7. Thanks for the chuckle. I know what irritates me – Captcha codes!