“Age is a question of mind over matter… If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.”

Gina, a friend of mine, was at her daughter’s wedding a few months back. At the exact moment the adorable couple said their “I do’s”, Gina’s boyfriend of 2 years slipped a lovely platinum ring on her finger and proposed! Of course in a few hours everyone came to know and the newly betrothed couple was showered with adulation’s and advice alike. But it was only when Gina’s aunt covertly whispered in her ear “Better late than never”, that she realized she was going to be a bride at 55!

Meeting your prince charming is a wonderful sensation at any age! There’s nothing like a wedding that leaves one feeling 25 again. But while you may enjoy the thrill of being a princess, there is a particular delicate and regal beauty in being a queen. Keep in mind that you have the maturity and mindset most brides don’t, and thus you can have a more beautiful, yet elegant fairytale wedding with a lovely life thereafter! Let’s start with the basics:

Where shall we tie the knot-

The venue you select for your wedding will set the theme of the whole extravaganza. This is your chance to be bold and fun; letting the world know that you guys are still energetic and youthful at heart. Since it is probably the second time, stray away from the traditional church wedding and try something different, like an old Victorian villa or even a ranch! Whatever the place, be it a ballroom or the beach, how you decorate and dress determines how sophisticated it will be.

How about the ‘wow’ factor- Spice it up-

Buy funky gifts for every guest, something that represents your personality and the special touch you bring together as a couple. Don’t make it all about the ceremony; rather have a celebration that involves all your kids, grand-kids, family and friends!

What should I wear- The ‘all-important’ dress-

With that giggle in your smile and the glow on your face, I am sure you will make an absolutely gorgeous bride in any gown. But let’s face it, not everything is still pretty and perky! Choosing the right dress to suit your body will flaunt your assets in a lovely manner. Stay away from the Cinderella type ball gowns with oodles of lace, flowers and beaded veils.  Also run from strapless dresses that show the sagging shoulders. Consider wearing stunning and vibrant colors like ice blue, wine, silver, gold or a soft peach, with simple embellishments, instead of the typical white. Remember ‘less is more’ for an older bride. Also stick to sane shoes that are sensible yet sparkly and your feet will love you for it!

When you’re 50 and loving it, the doors are open wide for you to make the memory of a lifetime! Go crazy, get pampered and all-in-all have the perfect dream wedding!